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Once you have found the best home based business for 2009, you are going to start feeling so excited that you are going to want to tell everyone you know and come across. Do this can be a very harmful way to start your home based enterprise. Your friends and family are the people who know you best, so most of the time they are going to have the "I have to see it to believe it attitude." Here are some Dream Crusher Tips



Dream Crushers are the people in your life that always take the negative out of any situation. The Pessimistic. Sometimes these people don't even realize that they are doing this. They always tell you why something won't work, even before you try it. They usually never think with a positive attitude. They always operates out of fear. Never taking chances, playing it safe. The ones that tell you to go to school so you can get a good job and work for someone else for 30-40 years. They want you to stay around them for the pity parties and gossip, they don't want you to succeed.

You must surround yourself with positive people who believe in you or inspire you. The rest, just stay away from. Do not share your dreams, business plans, or anything with them. They will suck the motivation and life right out of you if you allow them to. They feed your subconscious mind negative seeds of doubt. That's why its very vital to stay plugged into your training calls and live conference events. You destroy these people with success. Never argue about your dreams, just prove by actions.

Spouses can be dream crushers sometimes and not even know it. When they put down your dreams, it could be that their mindset is that of someone who is looking for a safe and secure life. This can be very difficult to deal with being that they are in the home with you. You might have to separate yourself and your office so you can get the positive energy that you need to be creative. Remember not to argue but to prove by success.

Don't Tell Everyone Your Goals/Dreams. Sometimes people will give you negativity and not even mean to be negative. Most people have been living by default and just waiting on luck to come their way. Its just human nature to take the least resistant way, and your way may be out of the norm.Like The Matrix Movie.

if you are just starting your first home based business, you will still have a full-time job. One of the worst things you can do is go start telling all of your fellow employees about your new venture. That's what I did when I first found this industry, expecting positive feedback but received lots of Haters. People who didn't even know anything about running a business wanted to tell me why it wouldn't work and why they wouldn't try it. That's why its better to prove by example. When you start having success, let them come beg you to teach them what your doing.